It’s frustrating when 2 people see things and have issues on different levels that don’t match-up. 1 of those levels would be the purely physical, where needs need to be met: sexual and emotional, and well as for status and social purposes. The other is the level of Fate, where people get creative and decide to cut someone off for or include them for reasons that only they know, because they envision a path of actions leading into other situations that necessitates that inclusion or ostracism. This is the continual pondering of people that are either bored or very sensitive to such issues.
The problem is that we all get pissed-off like that, since a very real element is left out of a relationship, creating massive frustration, yet it may be for better. In the end the person who has been most active seeks absolution and feels guilty, yet does not know that his/her subject/s are also seeing the causal relationship of events as their events too, linking and supplying a need to deviate their Fate. On the receiving end the blame stops, because the subject has seen enough confirmations of where the Fater is going. It is the Fater who has the problems with conscience, and also eventually with needs, since they cannot well repair the ‘damage’, that has now gone on to form part of someone’s, or several peoples’ Fate. And they were right; there would be little point to go on thinking it was wrong, since events have interlaced since.
Esteban, ya te vienes! 